However, we sometimes pray for the “little” stuff too. A prayer is a in achieving what we want to achieve.For example, we pray that it doesn’t rain because rain will ruin our weekend plans. It’s a way to focus our energy, motivation, and optimism toward a goal.We say we want someone who will respect our “No sex before marriage” rule, but as soon as that good looking man who can’t keep his hands to himself comes along, suddenly celibacy is not all that important.Another thing to understand is that yes, every relationship will have it’s ups and downs. The problems you get comfortable with dealing with in a dating relationship, will be the same problems you will deal with in your marriage.Most Christian people are very serious about praying.Prayer is the essential part of the Christian faith and we pray for various things in various situations and on various occasions.God loves you just the way you are and you should love yourself just the way you are.
You probably don’t since it seems so petty compared to major issues like health, well-being, peace, and understanding among people. We lower our standards in an attempt to make them who we want them to be instead of seeing them for who they really are.We say we want a Godly man, but as soon as that good looking man who is not living according to God’s word comes along, suddenly a Godly man is not all that important.This kind of thinking puts too much strain on a relationship, especially in the early stages.You want to get to know your partner first, have some fun, enjoy each other’s company, and then see whether it can evolve into something more meaningful like marriage. The love for God, for our fellow humans and for ourselves is the very basis of the Christian faith and it defines not only who we are and the way we behave around others, but also what our life will be like. You will never find true love unless you remember to love yourself.